Thursday 21 August 2014

START THE DAY THE TORAH WAY 24th November 2013

I suffered from back pains which have increased over the past two years and despite having check-ups with hospitals, MRI scans etc, nothing seemed to help. I was informed by a leading physician that I had nothing life threatening to worry about, but nevertheless, I was disturbed every night when sleeping, as I was woken up by pains that literally woke me up in the middle of the night.

A few months ago, having been recommended by my doctor, I had a course of treatment by an alternative practitioner (his name is Andre Moncreif-Ressouw Telephone 07448 425125).

After a few months treatment, which consisted, in the main, of pressing on the nerves all over by body, we finally stumbled on the answer. He stated early on that he felt that what was causing the problem was that the thoracic system, which is in the chest and controls that part and towards the back, was blocked. Ducts which should have drained away were not being drained away. He worked on this and was convinced that he was getting there, but, nevertheless, I kept on telling him that it was not clearing at night but during the day I felt better.

I have always requested him, when I lie down on his couch, that the head rest should be raised and that my head should not be lying flat, and he complied.

Very recently, it dawned on him that he ought to ask how I lay down at night. When I confirmed that I used two cushions, he suggested that this might be causing the problem in that I was pressing my chest between my head and my tummy and this was stopping the draining action which was necessary. I, therefore, stopped using one of the cushions and almost, by magic over the past few weeks, I have virtually no pain at night and certainly do not get woken up by it. I am, of course, grateful to Hashem for having sent Andre to me and for him to having done this, as well as having improved my general well being. (The reason why I used two cushions was that I found that my head would go round at night on occasion and it helped if my head was that much higher up than the rest of my body.)

He has discussed with me the interplay between nerves which are situated, for example, in the foot, nevertheless have a direct effect on the head. When twisting one of my toes, he told me that this would help the balance in my ear to be improved.

By working on those nerves and various others situated much nearer my head, he managed to reduce the giddiness and the sensation of my head going round. He explained to me that the nerve which then sends the message from the toe to the ear was one of the fastest in the body and, furthermore, mentioned that the reason why it was situated in the toe was that if a person is walking and the ground is uneven, he is therefore likely to go off balance suddenly and this needs to be corrected. The correction takes place in the ear where the balance of a person is situated. Therefore, there has to be a very quick response from the foot to the ear.

Likewise he mentioned other such pressure points which have an effect, not only in their vicinity but sometimes in a completely different part of the body. Having learnt much about biology through his ministrations and discussions with him, I got thinking about how Hashem created Odom Harishon and matters flowed from there.

We know that Hashem created Odom Harishon with 248 limbs and 365 sinews. There are also 248 positive commandments מצות עשה and also 365 negative commandments לא תעשה.

Furthermore, we are told that every limb has an affinity with a particular positive mitzvah and every sinew with a negative mitzvah.

With this, we can perhaps begin to understand why there are certain mitzvos which are known as prime mitzvos for example, Shabbos, Kashrus, Teharos Hamishpocho, etc. These are comparable to the parts of the body which if not functioning can bring instant death, for example, the brain, the heart, the lungs, the backbone, the liver etc. In the same light, learning Torah appears to be directly connected to the neshomo of every Yid, the חלק אלקי ממעל.

We know that certain mitzvos cannot be performed by everybody, for example, there are mitzvos of the Kohanim, the Levi’im, Dayanim and Yisroelim which are exclusively in their own domains. At the time that there was a Bais Hamikdosh, all the Kohanim there performing the עבודה, the service carried out each day there. There were also the Levi’im who assisted, opened gates, singing songs etc. There were even Yidden who were in attendance. There was also the great Sanhedrin which sat in proximity to the Bais Hamikdosh as the final Bais Din in the Land. Furthermore, three times a year, every male had to attend and once in seven years at the time of Hakhel everybody had to attend the Bais Hamikdosh including the small children. Therefore, all Klal Yisroel had an uplift which centred on the Bais Hamikdosh but spread outwards.

In the same way, the bodies of all the B’nai Yisroel received direct or indirect affinity with the mitzvos by this. Let us take an example of a negative mitzvah at the time of the Bais Hamikdosh. We are told לא תטע לך אשרה כל עץ אצל מזבח ה' אלקיך אשר תעשה לך, you may not plant a tree as idol worship next to the altar of Hashem which you make for yourselves.

The very fact that at the Bais Hamikdosh the Kohanim were assisted by the Levi’im and possibly by the Sanhedrin ensured that nobody planted any trees near the mizbeach. This was a mitzvah which concerned every Jew wherever he was, but was physically dealt with there, by the experts on the spot.

How do we deal with the mitzvos which concern particular sections of Klal Yisroel nowadays, I believe that there are two ways. Firstly, our חז''ל instituted בתי כנסיות and בתי מדרשות. Houses of Congregation, namely Shuls, and Houses of Learning. These are known as בתי מקדש מעט, smaller versions of the Bais Hamikdosh. Of course, they are not of the standard of holiness and do not have the mitzvos performed in the Bais Hamikdosh but, nevertheless, people attending a Shul or a Bais Hamedrash, a Yeshiva or a Seminary, or for that matter a cheder or a girls’ school, by joining in the tefillos and/or learning about mitzvos tap into the same sources of Kedusha as those that emanated from the Bais Hamikdosh.

We are told by our חז''ל that Avrohom Avinu was shown future generations and he was told that there would be a Bais Hamikdosh. He was pleased to see that there would, therefore, be a place where his descendents would be able to be elevated in holiness and also receive atonement for any sins. He was then shown the Bais Hamikdosh being destroyed and was upset, but Hashem told him ונשלמה פרים שפתינו, by davening with kavonnah one can also achieve the same purposes.

We are also told כל העוסק במצות עולה כאלו היקריב עולה, somebody who busies himself with learning about the mitzvah of bringing a sacrifice known as an Olah, one which was completely burnt on the mizbeach, is equivalent to somebody actually bringing the sacrifice at the time of the Bais Hamikdosh and the same goes for other mitzvos.

Coming back to the connection that I made earlier on with Odom Harishon having 248 limbs which are connected with the 248 positive mitzvos and the 365 sinews connected to the 365 negative mitzvos, we are enabled to have our bodies spiritually uplifted and spiritually connected with Hashem. Not only by keeping the actual mitzvos that we are able to perform nowadays but also by davening and learning, we can also have a connection with the ones that unfortunately we are not able to perform because there is no Bais Hamikdosh or alternatively, the ones which belong to specialised situations.

Let us take another example, this time of a specialised situation. The Torah tells us כי תבנה בית חדש ועשית מעקה לגגך, if you build a new house, you need to put a fence around the roof. What happens if somebody never built himself a house or has a house with a sloping roof and no flat roof at all etc.. By learning about the mitzvah one achieves an affinity with the mitzvah as well.

Sometimes the Torah itself gives us a clue as to cause and effect. We are told ולא תקח שוחד כי השוחד יעור עיני חכמים, one may not take bribery because this will cloud the judgement of wise people etc. I have read stories of such happenings where the person taking bribes became blind which is really the literal translation of יעור עיני חכמים. By taking a bribe and “turning a blind eye” this can actually lead to physical blindness.

Maybe we could take a further example from the third Parsha of Shema, ולא תתורו אחרי לבבכם ואחרי עיניכם למען תזכרו  etc. You should not explore after your heart (for forbidden pleasures) or after your eyes (for impermissible images) in order than one should remember to keep a spiritual balance and, therefore, keep all the mitzvos and be Holy Jews. One can see nowadays, the interplay between degenerate images which can found very easily on the internet etc. and which has the exact opposite effect of us keeping mitzvos and being Holy.

I mentioned earlier on that there were prime mitzvos which I thought were comparable to parts of the body which are impossible to keep alive without. I started off with Shabbos as the mitzvah and the brain as an example of a very important part of the body. I think that one can take this a little further, that, in fact, the Shabbos is comparable to the head, and the brain in particular. Shabbos is the most important part, the Head of the week. As far as Shabbos is concerned, it has two mitzvos, זכור את יום השבת and also שמור. These practically are the mitzvos asei, the positive command to Remember Shabbos and the negative to Guard against not performing one of the 39 מלאכות, the works which one may not carry out on Shabbos. I believe that one can compare this with the brain which produces positive things for a person to do and also controls the negative side.

There are, of course, certain mitzvos that we do not understand and they are called חוקים, statutes, for example, shaatnes, namely, that one may not wear wool and linen together. May I suggest that similarly, there are organs in the body which we do not understand the function of, for example, the appendix.

To sum up, the more we personally can perform the mitzvos which are available to us nowadays, as well as davenning and learning about them, and supporting people who are studying and davenning with kavonnah, the more we will be spiritually at one with all the mitzvos of Torah, all the 613 mitzvos and, therefore, have a strong and growing affinity with Hashem.

Somebody who is not capable of learning can create a partnership similar to that the two tribes יששכר and זבולון participated in. Namely, that זבולון was the merchant who earned money and contracted to keep יששכר who sat and learned Torah. That is a very high level of affinity and there are examples of people, even nowadays who do so.

We must never forget the כח דרבים, a minyan who can recite numerous דברים שבקדושה, for example leyning a Sefer Torah and the shechinah dwells among them. Therefore, davenning with a minyan is very important

Many of the 613 mitzvos are בין אדם לחבירו, mitzvos between one person and another. They are directly connected with מידות טובות, good qualities that every person is supposed to work on. Let us just quote a few:-

The Torah states ואהבת לרעך כמוך, love a fellow Jew as you love yourself. Not only רעך a fellow Jew who keeps mitzvos but also ואהבתם את הגר

The Torah also commands us, לא תעשק שכיר עני ואביון מאחיך או מגרך אשר בארצך בשעריך. In short, if somebody hires a worker whether he is Jewish or a Ger, and he has to pay him that day, the Torah quite clearly states that this is a mitzvah asei, namely that you have to pay him before sundown for work that is carried out the previous night or pay him before the next sunrise for work which was carried out during the day.

I recall a story, I believe, regarding Rav Eliashiv who was unfortunately on the way to a leviya for one of his close relatives, I don’t remember whether  his wife or his daughter, and he stopped on the way looked for money and gave it to somebody with instructions to pay a worker. Even in such circumstances, when one would understand it if the money was not paid by the due time, he was careful to do so.

There are, of course, numerous other positive mitzvos which are connected with middos tovos.

Among the negative mitzvos we are enjoined not to transgress, we find לא תגזול and  לא תגנוב

The difference between them is that גזל means robbing somebody in public and people can see and know about it, whereas לא תגנוב means that this is carried out in private without anybody knowing.

In addition to these two mitzvos which are general rules, the Torah goes into detail on occasion, for example, לא יהיה לך בכיסך אבן ואבן גדולה וקטנה לא יהיה לך בכיסך אפיה ואיפה גדולה וקטנה אבן שלמה וצדק יהיה לך איפה שלמה וצדק יהיה לך. The Torah tells us that one may not have weights and measures which are deliberately faulty, they must be 100% accurate. The Torah carries on, interestingly למען יארכו ימיך in order that your days should be lengthened. We see that here, the Torah actually gives a special brocho to people who keep this mitzvah properly.

The Chofetz Chaim when he lived in Radin was busy with Torah and mitzvos but his wife had a small grocery shop open, so that they should have some parnoso. There was another Yid in the small townlet of Radin who had a similar shop but as people got to know of the צדקות, the righteousness, of the Chofetz Chaim, they started buying more and more from his wife rather than the other shop keeper. The Chofetz Chaim decided that this was not acceptable and his wife only kept the shop open for half a day each day. This still did not help very much and the Chofetz Chaim was worried about the loss and aggravation he might have caused another Yid. In addition, the Chofetz Chaim was very worried about weights and measures. He always insisted that their scales should be checked very often and that, if anything, extra should be given rather than the exact weight.

Finally, after some years, by which time he was publishing his own seforim and selling them himself and, therefore, had a certain amount of income from this other source, he decided that his shop, run loyally by his wife, should close down. Even them, once he decided to close it, he had a well dug in the town which everybody was entitled to use free of charge. This was just in case he had, by accident, overcharged or given underweight unknowingly.

We know that the Chofetz Chaim lived to a very ripe old age, in his 90’s למען יארכו ימיך.

I am also reminded of a story that happened to me many, many years ago, where I had a client who was considering whether to use a tax scheme which was then very popular. This would have saved him a considerable amount of money. Eventually, he came back to me and said that he would not go ahead with the scheme because “he wanted to sleep peacefully at night”. By ensuring that one has the right scales being used, people can achieve lengthier lives because they can sleep peacefully at night.

We are all aware of how the Chofetz Chaim publicised and emphasised the strictures against loshen hora and rechilus, which, of course, are written in Torah. These include לא תלך רכיל בעמך and also there is a mitzvah of מדבר שקר תרחק, to actually distance oneself from any untruths. This is the only time in the Torah that there is a mitzvah where the Torah, itself, enjoins us to distance ourselves from something wrong תרחק!!

We all know how difficult these mitzvos are to keep, how nasty situations are created by idle gossip and statements made which often are half truths.

Performing the above mitzvos, even when it is difficult, enables us to improve and perfect our middos.

The sedras we have been reading over the past few weeks have basically all been about Yaakov Avinu and his children. Yaakov is known as the בחיר האבות, the chosen one, the special one of the Avos. We are further told that whereas Avrohom served Hashem with chesed, kindness, Yitzchok with gevura, stressing the fear of Hashem, Yaakov Avinu employed a mixture of the two and therefore, came to שלימות, a complete oneness with Hashem. חז''ל tell usהראשון    שופרה של יעקב מאין שופרה של אדם the beauty, meaning the spiritual level of Yaakov Avinu reached that of Odom Harishon, before he ate from the etz hadaas.

We can also understand a further מאמר חז''ל, a saying of our chochomim, namely that the Avos kept the Torah before it was ever given. They had achieved such a level of oneness with Hashem that all their 248 limbs and all their 365 sinews did what Hashem wanted them to do, namely, His will, even before the individual mitzvos were given to us at Har Sinai. They elevated their whole physical being to a very high level.

We might be forgiven for thinking to ourselves, how can we, individually, reach such a high level. We are approaching Chanukah and we all know the miracle that took place with the menorah, the oil that should have only lasted one day, or maybe less, lasted for eight days. This was because the B’nei Yisroel at the time showed such a מסירת נפש such extraordinary bravery and dedication to do what Hashem wanted and not turn aside from the ways of Torah and because of that they merited supernatural help.

We, ourselves, can also achieve much more than we think if we dedicate ourselves to keep the mitzvos available to us nowadays, properly. To learn Torah, support Torah daven with kavonnah and, of course, improve our middos.


All this will help to tone our bodies up and B’Ezras Hashem, keep us healthy, physically as well as spiritually.

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