Thursday 21 August 2014

ABOUT CHESED כי אמרתי עולם חסד יבנה Because I said a world of kindness will be built

This story was related to me by a Chasidish young man called Fisher, who lives in Haifa. He runs an organisation to help special needs children in that city.

Some months ago he was very short of funds and needed to pay out monies and eventually the day of reckoning was only one day away.

In desperation, he decided and he and his wife would travel from Haifa to Kever Rochel and ask the Mama Rochel to intercede. The sum required was in the tens of thousands of shkelim, I believe around £8,000 or so.

He and his wife arrived at Kever Rochel in the early evening and by 8.00pm they were busy davenning and pleading that Mama Rochel should intercede on their behalf. By 9.00pm they were out of Kever Rochel.

They travelled back to Haifa that evening, and Mr Fisher felt relieved.

He got up in the morning and went to daven, still with this feeling of relief and ease, even though he had no idea where he was going to find the money that every day.

After davenning, a young man approached him and gave him an envelope. Mr Fisher asked what it was all about, and the answer was “it’s from Mama Rochel”. Mr Fisher nearly passed out. Asking the young man, what this was all about, it was explained to him that his mother, or grandmother, had died five months earlier and had left money to give in her memory, לעלוי נשמתה.

When Mr Fisher asked, “why five months after her death?” and continued “I can understand if it was at the end of the shiva or the shloshim or at the yahrzeit, but five months is strange.” The donor replied that there had been discussions among the family as to whether they should give the money for learning Torah or for chesed and they could not reach a decision. The night before, they had travelled to Nahariya to Reb Dovid Abuchatzeirah and promised to abide by his decision.

Rabbi Abuchatzeirah said to them that it was never good for the neshomo that there should be arguments and, therefore, he suggested that they should take half the money and give it to a Yeshiva and the other half should be given for chesed. Rabbi Abuchatzeirah suggested that the organisation run by Mr Fisher would be appropriate, as the lady had lived in Haifa.

Mr Fisher asked at what time had they seen Rabbi Abuchatzeirah. “Around 9.00 pm” was the reply.

When Mr Fisher counted the amount in the envelope, it was precisely what he needed to cover the money for that very day!!



My son, Avi Sugarwhite, related the following story.

A gentleman, let us call him Mr B, was waiting in line impatiently at a grocery shop, a makolet in Eretz Yisroel, to pay for his goods.

In front of him was another gentleman, let us call him Mr A, with a trolley. When Mr A reached the check out, he said to the cashier, just a minute and went to take something else from the shelves and put it in the trolley. Mr B became rather upset when this happened twice. When it happened a third time, he remonstrated with Mr A saying “could you please stop running backwards and forwards, pay for your purchases and let me get served.” The answer he got was “Just one minute”. Mr A ran off again to the shelves and Mr B lost his cool. He let Mr A know what he felt about the matter.

However, when he noticed that Mr A was very upset, Mr B felt that he had overdone it. Mr B turned to the person at the till and said “add up how much is there and I will pay for all the goods.” Mr B turned to Mr A, and said “You see I am sorry, I should not have been so harsh and want to make up for it.” But Mr A was crying.

After Mr B paid, not only for the other person’s purchases, but also for his own, he asked Mr A what was going on.

The story was the following:-

For the last two or three months, Mr A had no money and gradually all their food and rations dwindled until they had nothing left. His wife suggested, in desperation, that he should go to the grocery shop, the makolet, and buy some goods and she would say tehillim and Hashem would help.

Mr A went to the grocery shop and filled up the trolley with what was desperately needed. When he got to the till, with no money to pay and knowing that the makolet would not give him credit, in desperation, he went back to the shelves to take another item and another, hoping for a miracle. Mr B was the “miracle man”.

When Mr B heard this story, he asked Mr A how much his normal monthly grocery bill was and was given a figure.

Mr B then wrote out 11 monthly post dated cheques covering the whole cost for the next year.


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